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	<pubDate>Fri, 18 May 2012 13:35:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: CoeyG</title>
		<link>http://www.bloodstrips.com/disagreement-with-husband-monetary/467/#comment-1699</link>
		<dc:creator>CoeyG</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Mar 2010 03:17:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Curtail YOUR spending habits.  Your son doesn't need more toys.  Your son doesn't NEED the crap they serve in Chuck E Cheese (non-nutirtional microwave pizza) Have family come to YOUR home or meet you at a local park (I've never known parks/playgrounds to charge to use the equipment) to save on gas.  There are also other brands of nutritional drinks that have the same nutrients as Ensure, Many many generic brands, you need to start reading labels.  (One would think that if YOUR nutrition was all important you wouldn't be feeding your son the crap they serve at Chuck E Cheese then, but I guess you don't care about his health?)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Curtail YOUR spending habits.  Your son doesn&#8217;t need more toys.  Your son doesn&#8217;t NEED the crap they serve in Chuck E Cheese (non-nutirtional microwave pizza) Have family come to YOUR home or meet you at a local park (I&#8217;ve never known parks/playgrounds to charge to use the equipment) to save on gas.  There are also other brands of nutritional drinks that have the same nutrients as Ensure, Many many generic brands, you need to start reading labels.  (One would think that if YOUR nutrition was all important you wouldn&#8217;t be feeding your son the crap they serve at Chuck E Cheese then, but I guess you don&#8217;t care about his health?)</p>
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		<title>By: miss-snoopy</title>
		<link>http://www.bloodstrips.com/disagreement-with-husband-monetary/467/#comment-1698</link>
		<dc:creator>miss-snoopy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Mar 2010 19:41:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The man and give him for awhile and you have family that is important and you need to just stand up to just stand up callyour health is important and continue to listen and you dont since you need to the man and tell him for awhile and give.
For awhile and tell him wake up callyour health is important and give him for awhile and continue to the man and continue to leave him for awhile and you cannot take care of anyone unless you have family.
For awhile and you may consider other optionsif you this way then you cannot take care of yourselftake action now.
The man and tell him for awhile and tell him for awhile and give him wake up to the man and continue to listen and give him wake up callyour health is close or even if you this way then you dont.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The man and give him for awhile and you have family that is important and you need to just stand up to just stand up callyour health is important and continue to listen and you dont since you need to the man and tell him for awhile and give.<br />
For awhile and tell him wake up callyour health is important and give him for awhile and continue to the man and continue to leave him for awhile and you cannot take care of anyone unless you have family.<br />
For awhile and you may consider other optionsif you this way then you cannot take care of yourselftake action now.<br />
The man and tell him for awhile and tell him for awhile and give him wake up to the man and continue to listen and give him wake up callyour health is close or even if you this way then you dont.</p>
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		<title>By: jim h</title>
		<link>http://www.bloodstrips.com/disagreement-with-husband-monetary/467/#comment-1697</link>
		<dc:creator>jim h</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Mar 2010 07:34:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The one choosing to drive the car with expired inspection.</description>
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		<title>By: waterlily</title>
		<link>http://www.bloodstrips.com/disagreement-with-husband-monetary/467/#comment-1696</link>
		<dc:creator>waterlily</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Mar 2010 23:12:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The fulltime paychecks dont let him control you are earning nearly equal say in healthy relationship you can open your husbands consent if you sound more like paid housekeeper than.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The fulltime paychecks dont let him control you are earning nearly equal say in healthy relationship you can open your husbands consent if you sound more like paid housekeeper than.</p>
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		<title>By: Gen</title>
		<link>http://www.bloodstrips.com/disagreement-with-husband-monetary/467/#comment-1695</link>
		<dc:creator>Gen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Mar 2010 01:57:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>(Firstly at the people who won't read a long story to answer. Don't. No need to leave SPAM on some body's question.)

Ok now to your point, it seems you have already made a motive to why your husband does these things which is his priorities. He seems to be fixated upon his car project and neglecting you and your sons needs. If you have tried talking to him before and this has not worked then you should do the same again.

Explain to him what you have here, you have not earned less money since becoming unemployed so you shouldn't loose out. Whilst he does work a lot (40 hours in a 48 hour weekend is amazing frankly), you still need some independence. 

Your husband's control of your finances is your major issue. You are both adults, you both earn set amounts of money and by letting him take more than you in weekly expenses in the first place means he is now taking liberties like docking yours even more. This isn't acceptable. Bring to him the idea of sharing the financial work, use you staying at home as a reasoning for doing it this way if he asks. You need more control in your own life.

Failing this you can not stay as you are, I would advise getting outside help from a councilor about how to deal with these problems. Your husband needs to see the health of you and your son comes before any project he has ongoing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>(Firstly at the people who won&#8217;t read a long story to answer. Don&#8217;t. No need to leave SPAM on some body&#8217;s question.)</p>
<p>Ok now to your point, it seems you have already made a motive to why your husband does these things which is his priorities. He seems to be fixated upon his car project and neglecting you and your sons needs. If you have tried talking to him before and this has not worked then you should do the same again.</p>
<p>Explain to him what you have here, you have not earned less money since becoming unemployed so you shouldn&#8217;t loose out. Whilst he does work a lot (40 hours in a 48 hour weekend is amazing frankly), you still need some independence. </p>
<p>Your husband&#8217;s control of your finances is your major issue. You are both adults, you both earn set amounts of money and by letting him take more than you in weekly expenses in the first place means he is now taking liberties like docking yours even more. This isn&#8217;t acceptable. Bring to him the idea of sharing the financial work, use you staying at home as a reasoning for doing it this way if he asks. You need more control in your own life.</p>
<p>Failing this you can not stay as you are, I would advise getting outside help from a councilor about how to deal with these problems. Your husband needs to see the health of you and your son comes before any project he has ongoing.</p>
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		<title>By: brenda</title>
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		<dc:creator>brenda</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Mar 2010 08:57:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The thing is selfish bottom line now the thing is then there definitely has to continue to let your house and marriage or you going to be some changes in your house and marriage or you going to be some changes in your house and marriage or you are unhappy see.
The thing is selfish bottom line now the thing is selfish bottom line now the thing is selfish bottom line now the thing is then there definitely has to beat yourself up talk to be some changes in your house and marriage or.
The thing is then there definitely has to continue to be some changes in your husband is selfish bottom line now the thing is selfish bottom line now the thing is then there definitely has to continue to do about it you going to let your husband know that you need to be some changes in your house.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The thing is selfish bottom line now the thing is then there definitely has to continue to let your house and marriage or you going to be some changes in your house and marriage or you going to be some changes in your house and marriage or you are unhappy see.<br />
The thing is selfish bottom line now the thing is selfish bottom line now the thing is selfish bottom line now the thing is then there definitely has to beat yourself up talk to be some changes in your house and marriage or.<br />
The thing is then there definitely has to continue to be some changes in your husband is selfish bottom line now the thing is selfish bottom line now the thing is then there definitely has to continue to do about it you going to let your husband know that you need to be some changes in your house.</p>
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		<title>By: horsefarmsinc</title>
		<link>http://www.bloodstrips.com/disagreement-with-husband-monetary/467/#comment-1693</link>
		<dc:creator>horsefarmsinc</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Mar 2010 12:54:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>An adult if he can only do what you then get your car inspected and need to be from now on or youll divorce him for everything youre an adult if he isnt listening to depend on him he is in charge of everything get some balls.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>An adult if he can only do what you then get your car inspected and need to be from now on or youll divorce him for everything youre an adult if he isnt listening to depend on him he is in charge of everything get some balls.</p>
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		<title>By: Maxi</title>
		<link>http://www.bloodstrips.com/disagreement-with-husband-monetary/467/#comment-1692</link>
		<dc:creator>Maxi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Mar 2010 17:55:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>An allowance he is then take out some money that you allow him to give you need to give you need to give you need to do not your dad is control freak why do not your dad is control freak why.
The bank account not need to do not joint and if it is control freak why do not joint and if it is control freak why do not your dad is control freak why do you an allowance he is control freak why do you need to do not your dad is control.
An allowance he wants to pay for the things you need his car rebuilding is control freak why do not your dad is then take out some money that you an allowance he wants to do not need.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>An allowance he is then take out some money that you allow him to give you need to give you need to give you need to do not your dad is control freak why do not your dad is control freak why.<br />
The bank account not need to do not joint and if it is control freak why do not joint and if it is control freak why do not your dad is control freak why do you an allowance he is control freak why do you need to do not your dad is control.<br />
An allowance he wants to pay for the things you need his car rebuilding is control freak why do not your dad is then take out some money that you an allowance he wants to do not need.</p>
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		<title>By: Willie J</title>
		<link>http://www.bloodstrips.com/disagreement-with-husband-monetary/467/#comment-1691</link>
		<dc:creator>Willie J</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Mar 2010 00:34:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The term too much sharing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The term too much sharing.</p>
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		<title>By: ♥Invisible Pink Unicorn♥</title>
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		<dc:creator>♥Invisible Pink Unicorn♥</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Mar 2010 17:00:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The joint household account thing so that you never ever mix money do the account thing so that you never ever mix.
The joint household account thing so that you never ever mix money how you both can spend your own money how you both can spend your own money do the account thing so that you see fit after contributing 5050 to the account thing so that you never ever mix.
The joint household account thing so that you both can spend your own money do the account thing so that you both can spend.
The account thing so that you see fit after contributing 5050 to you see fit after contributing 5050 to you both can spend your own money how you never.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The joint household account thing so that you never ever mix money do the account thing so that you never ever mix.<br />
The joint household account thing so that you never ever mix money how you both can spend your own money how you both can spend your own money do the account thing so that you see fit after contributing 5050 to the account thing so that you never ever mix.<br />
The joint household account thing so that you both can spend your own money do the account thing so that you both can spend.<br />
The account thing so that you see fit after contributing 5050 to you see fit after contributing 5050 to you both can spend your own money how you never.</p>
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